Maturity in Courtship

Marriage is not for babes (when I say 'babes' I'm not talking about age, some are young and matured and some are old but not matured). Maturity in marriage is very essential, as man or woman you need to attain maturity before thinking of marriage, you need to be able to tolerate a woman as a man, because we all know that women are weaker vessels, and as a woman also you need to tolerate a man as well, in order for you to have a blissful marriage. 

Like I said earlier, marriage is not for babes, it is not for those who cannot take godly decision without the inputs of their pastors or fellowship leaders on campuses!
If you cannot meditate personally on the word of God, in prayer and in Christian literature, you are unripe to go into courtship with anybody. If you see yourself playing truancy in Church programmes, youth programmes or campus programmes, you are a babe spiritually and you will be strong enough to go into relationship.

Courtship or marriage is not a game of luck, but unfortunately, many singles have turned it to be so. Going into Courtship is not about gambling, it is about getting assurance of the mind of God. It is baffling to hear from singles of how they blindly went into courtship without divine leading or assurance.
They gamble into relationship and gamble out. Unfortunately, many of them, especially sisters, gamble out of the relationship severely wounded, battered, crushed and destroyed.
Both Isaac and Rebecca according to the Holy book (Bible), looked up and recognized each other. Until you look up to Heaven, the creator and designer of marriage, you will not see your own 'Rebecca' or 'Isaac'. Until you choose to look up, you will not discover the person God wants you to go into courtship with.
I have discovered that most of the relationship or courtships today are based on soapy emotions, hollow intellectualism, lust and covetousness. The various courtships are not based on substance or divine assurance, but on issues that cannot stand the test of time.
The singles of our time believe in permutations. If 'A' does not work 'B' will work. This explains the reason for broken and turbulent courtships being experienced by singles, and perhaps - including you. If you look up, there will be divine green light, the Rebecca or Issac will be revealed in a plain language. The issue of having broken relationship or being jilted will not occur.
Some times ago, a sister told me she went into the relationship with two eyes closed! How on earth can you go into a relationship you are not sure of? It is never done! The Designer of courtship did not design it like that. Please, for God's sake; look up unto God for direction before you go into any relationship.
Identify your Isaac or Rebecca before you say "yes" to each other. Courtship is not about garbage in and garbage out. It is not gambling in and gambling out. It is all about looking up and knowing the very person God wants you to journey together with. I wish all intending couple a blissful marriage. Remain blessed.

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