Consequences of sex during Courtship

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  1. Abortion of Dignity: The dignity of the single lady is her virginity, same holds true for the man - bachelor. It is the dignity that qualified Mary and Joseph for the divine favour of bringing Jesus to the world. When you maintain your virginity, God will bestow special favour on you. 
  2. Abortion of clear Conscience: Human conscience is the police of the mind, this police does not fear anybody; it can arrest at will. If you sell yourself before the wedding day, anytime the issue is mentioned, your conscience will not allow you to rest. 
  3. Abortion of Joy: There is unspeakable joy in purity. This cannot be purchased by money. But if you defile yourself, you will bring eternal regret to yourself, you will ruin your lifestyle. You will look back with regrets and bitterness; you will look back with regrets and bitterness; you will wish that you could rewind your life so as to make correction. But losing virginity is like a broken egg that cannot be gathered up and glued together. 
  4. Abortion of dream: Casual sex leads to unwanted pregnancy and unplanned baby. If you become pregnant in the process or have a child in the process, your dream of having solid education, future and home could be shattered forever. You may end up becoming a single parent or marrying a man that is not God's choice. 
  5. Abortion of peace: if you carry out abortion in the process of the unwanted pregnancy, the blood of the baby will continue to cry for vengeance as the blood of Abel cried out to God against Cain, his brother. 
  6. Abortion of Moral Right: If as a brother or sister you practice sex during your courtship, you will lack the moral right to teach your children moral purity. If you end up becoming a minister of God, you will lack moral right to teach purity to your singles. 
  7. Abortion of Pride: The pride of any lady is for the husband to meet her 'intact' on the wedding night. If your husband finds you "empty" you will lose your pride before him. 
  8. Abortion of Honour: A virgin damsel is a honour to her parents, pastor and the Church if you forfeit your virginity before the wedding night. 
  9. Abortion of Glory: Your virginity (brother and sister) is your glory. This glory should not be sacrificed on any altar. 
  10. Abortion of Good Health: Casual sex can lead to sexually transmitted diseases like HIV/AIDS, infection and flow of blood. You can stay healthy by abstaining from casual sex. 
  11. Abortion of Fruit of the Womb: Sex outside marriage can lead of infertility. Infertility can be caused by ruptured womb, low sperm count and other things.

Many singles have gone far to the extent of staying together in a single room as husband and wife - This is generally known as 'living couple's life'. This is rubbish, and I think a single that is god-fearing, brought up by godly parents or going to Bible believing Church should not stoop so low to staying with opposite sex when they have not been joined together as husband and wife.

At courtship, prayerfully select your 'field', where you can be meeting with each each other. Nobody is trying to cage your liberty; it is the Church's duty to show you the path of honour as good couples had been taught before they got married. Having told you the truth, God will not require your blood from the church if you fall into sin. The option is open to you.

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